DECISIONS

     There were three frogs sitting on a log, in the middle of the lake.  One of the frogs decided to jump into the water.  How many frogs were left on the log ?  So you don't dwell on this too long, I'll give you the answer.  There were still three frogs on the log.  You see, the statement said one frog decided to jump into the water.  It did not say he jumped into the water.
     I have often told my clients that deciding is not the same as doing.  Many people decide to do something but they never do it !  Decision making is important.  However, acting on that decision is equally important.
Fear may enter into the  process of acting . Afraid it may be a bad decision.  Afraid you may make a mistake.
     The bible tells us that God did not give us the spirit of fear, but He did give us the spirit of love, power and a sound mind.  Don't be afraid of making a decision or acting on a decision.  If the decision to be made requires serious thought, the bible tells us to seek out many counselors you trust.  Weigh their opinions, then make and act on a decision.
     I'll never forget the conversation I had with my dad after I had made, what I considered, a bad decision or mistake.   I don't  remember what the decision or mistake was but I do remember what my dad told me.
He said "that's O.K., you are going to make all kind of decisions during your life. Some good, some bad but always try to make more good decisions than bad decisions." !!